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		By: Heather Hastie		</title>
		<link>https://www.heatherhastie.com/simons-cat-valentines-day-extras/#comment-13889</link>

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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Feb 2017 17:02:41 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.heatherhastie.com/simons-cat-valentines-day-extras/#comment-13883&quot;&gt;HaggisForBrains&lt;/a&gt;.

No I didn&#039;t know that. Interesting. I assumed it was an acronym or abbreviation.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.heatherhastie.com/simons-cat-valentines-day-extras/#comment-13883">HaggisForBrains</a>.</p>
<p>No I didn&#8217;t know that. Interesting. I assumed it was an acronym or abbreviation.</p>
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		By: Heather Hastie		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Feb 2017 17:00:20 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.heatherhastie.com/simons-cat-valentines-day-extras/#comment-13882&quot;&gt;HaggisForBrains&lt;/a&gt;.

Yeah. It meant something different when I was younger as well. :-) 

Young people seem never to have heard of it and only know the term STD, which to me is an abbreviation for standard.]]></description>
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<p>Yeah. It meant something different when I was younger as well. 🙂 </p>
<p>Young people seem never to have heard of it and only know the term STD, which to me is an abbreviation for standard.</p>
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		By: HaggisForBrains		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Feb 2017 11:50:12 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[&lt;blockquote&gt;I think they call them PAP smears in the US. Their sensibilities are too delicate for the word “cervix”&lt;/blockquote&gt;
Did you know that the Pap Smear was named by its inventor, George Papanicolaou, after spending over twenty years studying cervical smears (many of them provided by his long-suffering wife).  I learned this from the marvellous book, &lt;i&gt;The Emperor of All Maladies&lt;/i&gt;, by Siddhartha Mukherjee, which I&#039;ve just finished.  I can strongly recommend it, particularly if you have known someone with cancer (and who hasn&#039;t).]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>I think they call them PAP smears in the US. Their sensibilities are too delicate for the word “cervix”</p></blockquote>
<p>Did you know that the Pap Smear was named by its inventor, George Papanicolaou, after spending over twenty years studying cervical smears (many of them provided by his long-suffering wife).  I learned this from the marvellous book, <i>The Emperor of All Maladies</i>, by Siddhartha Mukherjee, which I&#8217;ve just finished.  I can strongly recommend it, particularly if you have known someone with cancer (and who hasn&#8217;t).</p>
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		By: HaggisForBrains		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Feb 2017 11:39:02 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.heatherhastie.com/simons-cat-valentines-day-extras/#comment-13873&quot;&gt;Heather Hastie&lt;/a&gt;.

Where I come from, VD would be considered a somewhat inappropriate abbreviation for Valentine&#039;s Day ;-)]]></description>
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<p>Where I come from, VD would be considered a somewhat inappropriate abbreviation for Valentine&#8217;s Day 😉</p>
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		By: HaggisForBrains		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Feb 2017 11:33:27 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.heatherhastie.com/simons-cat-valentines-day-extras/#comment-13870&quot;&gt;Craig Reges&lt;/a&gt;.

&quot;Restroom&quot; is to my mind the ultimate misleading euphemism.  The last place I&#039;d go to for a rest is the bog!]]></description>
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<p>&#8220;Restroom&#8221; is to my mind the ultimate misleading euphemism.  The last place I&#8217;d go to for a rest is the bog!</p>
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		By: Heather Hastie		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Feb 2017 03:31:31 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.heatherhastie.com/simons-cat-valentines-day-extras/#comment-13871&quot;&gt;Mark R.&lt;/a&gt;.

We&#039;ve been marketing Christmas earlier and earlier it seems.

When I was a kid we didn&#039;t do Halloween and VD wasn&#039;t a big thing. It seems the influence of the US is making those into a big thing now, though not as much as the US.

I remember getting a special card from a boyfriend when I was 19, and a rose from the next one at 20 and dinner at 21, but they weren&#039;t big dramas. I can&#039;t remember what I did, if anything. I&#039;ve never expected anything for VD since, though I would have been disappointed if I had. I think the expectation is a wrong attitude, and that sort of thing shouldn&#039;t depend on a date but on the relationship.

Having said that, I like my birthday to be remembered, though I don&#039;t expect expensive gifts or a big production, or anything like that.]]></description>
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<p>We&#8217;ve been marketing Christmas earlier and earlier it seems.</p>
<p>When I was a kid we didn&#8217;t do Halloween and VD wasn&#8217;t a big thing. It seems the influence of the US is making those into a big thing now, though not as much as the US.</p>
<p>I remember getting a special card from a boyfriend when I was 19, and a rose from the next one at 20 and dinner at 21, but they weren&#8217;t big dramas. I can&#8217;t remember what I did, if anything. I&#8217;ve never expected anything for VD since, though I would have been disappointed if I had. I think the expectation is a wrong attitude, and that sort of thing shouldn&#8217;t depend on a date but on the relationship.</p>
<p>Having said that, I like my birthday to be remembered, though I don&#8217;t expect expensive gifts or a big production, or anything like that.</p>
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		By: Heather Hastie		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Feb 2017 03:19:42 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.heatherhastie.com/simons-cat-valentines-day-extras/#comment-13870&quot;&gt;Craig Reges&lt;/a&gt;.

Ha ha :-)

We use that one too sometimes. The word I mean. :-)]]></description>
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<p>Ha ha 🙂</p>
<p>We use that one too sometimes. The word I mean. 🙂</p>
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		By: Mark R.		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Feb 2017 03:17:34 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I&#039;ve been married to my wife Patti for 15 years and have known her as a partner for 25 years. We have never celebrated/acknowledged V-day as a meaning of celebrating our love. We&#039;ve never exchanged cards, had a fancy dinner, and I&#039;ve never bought flowers. I know some women (I have an ex-girlfriend for proof) that freak out if Valentine&#039;s Day isn&#039;t perfectly executed. We consider all holidays as capitalist institutions designed solely to make money. Because of family, we do celebrate Christmas, but that&#039;s about it. I know this is cynical, but we&#039;ve thought this way since our early 20&#039;s...I wasn&#039;t nearly as cynical back then. I guess we don&#039;t feel questioning &#039;holidays&#039; was/is a cynical view. In the US, the uber-capitalist system wants to make as much money as possible on any and all holidays...whether religious, secular, or familial. It&#039;s pretty ridiculous nowadays. Does NZ start marketing holidays 2 months before the date? It&#039;s standard here...we start gearing up for Christmas merch before Halloween is done (10/31).

Today, I listened to a restaurant mogul, Bobby Flay, say that in his restaurants, Valentine&#039;s Day elicited the most tears. Basically, women who are let down because they were brought to a high-end restaurant for their first time while dating said person, and the question wasn&#039;t asked. It&#039;s a lame excuse for a celebrated day.

It&#039;s a forced holiday...but aren&#039;t they all?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve been married to my wife Patti for 15 years and have known her as a partner for 25 years. We have never celebrated/acknowledged V-day as a meaning of celebrating our love. We&#8217;ve never exchanged cards, had a fancy dinner, and I&#8217;ve never bought flowers. I know some women (I have an ex-girlfriend for proof) that freak out if Valentine&#8217;s Day isn&#8217;t perfectly executed. We consider all holidays as capitalist institutions designed solely to make money. Because of family, we do celebrate Christmas, but that&#8217;s about it. I know this is cynical, but we&#8217;ve thought this way since our early 20&#8217;s&#8230;I wasn&#8217;t nearly as cynical back then. I guess we don&#8217;t feel questioning &#8216;holidays&#8217; was/is a cynical view. In the US, the uber-capitalist system wants to make as much money as possible on any and all holidays&#8230;whether religious, secular, or familial. It&#8217;s pretty ridiculous nowadays. Does NZ start marketing holidays 2 months before the date? It&#8217;s standard here&#8230;we start gearing up for Christmas merch before Halloween is done (10/31).</p>
<p>Today, I listened to a restaurant mogul, Bobby Flay, say that in his restaurants, Valentine&#8217;s Day elicited the most tears. Basically, women who are let down because they were brought to a high-end restaurant for their first time while dating said person, and the question wasn&#8217;t asked. It&#8217;s a lame excuse for a celebrated day.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s a forced holiday&#8230;but aren&#8217;t they all?</p>
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		By: Craig Reges		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Feb 2017 03:14:14 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[You forgot that we also call them &quot;restrooms&quot;.]]></description>
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		By: Ken		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Feb 2017 02:28:53 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[&quot;I always wondered what USians asked for when they were looking for an actual bathroom?&quot;

A difference between NZ and the US is that in NZ toilets are often in a separate room from the bath, whereas in the States, they are almost always together. You may find a separate toilet on a floor that has no bath, but you will almost never find a bath without a toilet. So the same phrase is used whether looking for the toilet or the bath.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;I always wondered what USians asked for when they were looking for an actual bathroom?&#8221;</p>
<p>A difference between NZ and the US is that in NZ toilets are often in a separate room from the bath, whereas in the States, they are almost always together. You may find a separate toilet on a floor that has no bath, but you will almost never find a bath without a toilet. So the same phrase is used whether looking for the toilet or the bath.</p>
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